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Juan Mann Can Make A Difference

MayorBob.

Posted to Etcetera on Wed Nov 15, 2006 at 11:39:23 PM EST (promoted by port1080). RSS.

Hate, violence, and war are not difficult to come by in this world.  Just open the daily newspaper or watch a few minutes of news and man's inhumanity to man plays itself out for you.  So, if you're upset and depressed about all of this and want it to just stop, what do you do?  Protesting the war or deploring the violence done to any one side invites reciprocating anger against you for having the audacity to support this or oppose that.  But, there may be a way.  It's a bit retro, inviting a return to memories of those bygone days during the "Summer of Love", but it's been catching on.  It's quite simply spreading the message of peace and love one hug at a time.

Groups of young people, labeled "hippies" by their detractors, have been gathering outside of a mall in downtown Minneapolis, offering free hugs to any passersby (video of one such event shown here).  But this movement didn't begin in Minneapolis - or even the US.  It all began with a chap named Juan Mann who began distributing his hugs in Australia as a way to cure the "miserableness" he perceived among his fellow Aussies.  His first attempts were met with opposition from local politicians who insisted he post an (AU)$25 million bond to cover any injuries incurred as a result of his hugs.  But that requirement was dropped as soon as people everywhere began to witness what Juan and many others were up to via the miracle of youtube.

The story of Mann has now become part of internet lore and has led to groups like the Minneapolis Hug Brigade taking the street and pressing the flesh.  One of the members of the Hug Brigade, Dan Haugen, began hugging a couple of weeks ago.  When two police officers misread his "Free Hugs" sign as "Free Drugs", they approached him.  When they realized what he really wanted, both cops hugged Haugen and according to him "it was awesome."  Another member of the group, Carrie Rupp, said she wanted to make a difference but didn't quite know what to do.  She knew she liked to hug and she was "good at it" so she began offering her free hugs which she sees as planting a "seed (that) just grows and grows and grows."

This belief in the therapeutic and peace promoting nature of hugs has been espoused by people like Leo "Hug Doctor" Buscaglia and Hindu mystic Mata Amritanandamayi (Amma, for short) who has hugged an estimated 30 million people over the past three decades.  But it's one thing to have a hug movement focused on a touchy feely psychologist or a Hindu mystic.  This hug movement has spread by being from just people to just people.  Some did it as an experiment.  Some have turned it into a parade of sorts.  And, since the videos of Mann have spread across the internet, they've begun doing it all all over the world.

Tags: hugs, peace, love, written by Mayorbob, edited by Port1080 (all tags)

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Just one man eh?

shane.

Thu Nov 16, 2006 at 01:01:07 AM EST

5.00 (obnoxious, funny)

Hmmm, so it only takes Juan Mann to change the world....

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Yes.

MayorBob.

Thu Nov 16, 2006 at 08:30:58 AM EST

none

I'm wondering if port can go back in and change the hed now to either your or Admit The Woods' suggestion?

I'm not sure if this movement, if you will, is going anywhere or if it's just another of those trendy things.  I can personally attest to the therapeutic value of earnest, heartfelt hugs.  Of course, it's always good to get a reassuring embrace from someone you know and love.  When my mother passed away, the moment passed and I managed some sort of stoic stolidness, never really showing or channeling my grief right after her death.  I guess everything that had to be done (e.g., funeral, settling the estate, consoling other family members, etc.) took my mind off my own sense of loss.  And then, all of a sudden, one day I'm on an outing with my daughter and granddaughter (who my mother never got to see) and I was overcome with a very profound sense of loss and grief.  I began crying and heaving and both daughter and granddaughter were there.  Without even thinking about it they both embraced me and held me without question and without hesitation.  This lasted for several minutes and helped me channel all the pent up emotions I had stored inside.

Illegitimi non carborundum.

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Embraced by the machine

3fingerspointback.

Sat Nov 18, 2006 at 08:48:28 PM EST

5.00 (informative)

When the livestock husbandry designer Temple Grandin was a young girl, she craved hugs, but as an autistic, she became too stressed from physical contact with actual people.  Instead, she found inspiration in a piece of livestock equipment called a 'squeeze chute", which would inflate bladders to hold cattle still while they were branded.  The pressure of the chute also had a calming effect on cattle after the brand was applied.

Grandin took the concept and invented the hug machine, based on the same principle as the squeeze chute, but for use on autistic people.  Apparently, steady pressure all over the body is enough to calm down a person, regardless of who or what is giving it.

(is 3fingerspointback)

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Re: `Hugs, Not Thugs' - Hippy Nonsense Or A Kinder

rombuu.

Thu Nov 16, 2006 at 11:35:33 AM EST

4.00 (astute)

Without my consent, that's assault, isn't it?

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Re: `Hugs, Not Thugs' - Hippy Nonsense Or A Kinder

Lou.

Thu Nov 16, 2006 at 04:52:53 PM EST

5.00 (funny)

Without my consent, that's assault, isn't it?

Whatever way you like it, sailor.

It's the end of the world as we know it, and I feel fine

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Pros and cons of hugs

nmiguy.

Thu Nov 16, 2006 at 08:23:51 AM EST

none

Hugs are a very personal and affectionate way fo connecting with people.  When you hug a loved one, you can feel their heart beat and their warmth, and their desire to connect when they hug you back.  When you hug a stranger, it is an awkward yet humbling social experiment that usually spreads some good will.  (I have hugged strangers before and it was pleasant.)

But the negatives of hugs are real too.  Close contact with people, shaking hands, being in confined spaces and close body contact makes people into germ vectors.  You hug lots of strangers, you will increase your chances of getting the flu or a cold or some other nasty contagion.  And if you try to hug a mentally disturbed operson or a person prone to violence, you never know what could happen.  Instead of feeling all warm and fuzzy inside, they may want to slice you up into little pieces.  But hey, live is filled with risks.  You will likely catch the flu or a cold in your lifetime, from touching a doorknob, you are likely to experience some form of violence in your lifetime whether you give random hugs or not.  

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Re: Pros and cons of hugs

Thalia.

Tue Nov 21, 2006 at 03:54:36 AM EST

none

The guy doesn't go around attacking people without invitation.  He just has a card that says "free hugs" and people approach him.  

As to germs, you have a much greater chance of getting germs from a handshake than from a hug.  A hug usually doesn't put you in contact with the person's hands or nose, which carry the most germs.

Thalia

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I can't help it

spinerfemme.

Thu Nov 16, 2006 at 12:45:37 PM EST

none

I think this is the silliest thing I've seen in a long time.  The single-most last thing I want to happen as I'm on my way somewhere is to be invited to hug some patchouli-wearing pseudo-hippie who very likely has Mom's credit card in their wallet.  Worse yet, grabbed by such a person.  But given the videos, that isn't really happening.  It's more an invitation.  Oh, and by the way, try to spring for something more than a used pizza box and a crayon for your signs, mm'kay?

I definitely feel the frustration about the world that seems to be the basis for this movement/trend.  We are way, way too angry at each other for so many bad reasons.  But I think conversation, diplomacy, and creative thinking will go a much longer way to solving our global problems than a momentary lapse of sanity that causes two complete strangers to put breast-to-breast.

Finally, as a GenXer, I automatically react to anything "hippie".  We owe the hippie movement a lot, don't get me wrong.  But it was right for its own time.  Not so much this one, I think.  These Millennials (aka. GenY) seem to be romaticizing their parents' past and buying into any nostagia within.  Let's move on.  Let's use a new strategy more tailor-made to our time.  We have access to information and each other unlike the hippies ever dreamed (well, maybe in an acid-ridden stupor someone came up with the idea to talk to someone else in India using a funny box on their desktop, but that's just conjecture), so let's integrate that.  At the very least, produce your signs on a printer for pete's sake.

"Did you see that?" he asked, excitedly. "My thought just hit your jacket and then floated to the ground like my favorite piece of cheese!"

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Small thinking

nmiguy.

Fri Nov 17, 2006 at 10:55:47 AM EST

none

They think hugs can make peace and happiness?  Why don't they upgrade to blowjobs?  Guys getting blowjobs are in no mood for violence.  

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