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If You've Been Having Risky Sex, You'd Better Tell Your Partner

MayorBob.

Posted to Etcetera on Tue Jul 18, 2006 at 09:13:06 AM EST. RSS.

Steven Stills once commented, "if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with."  But, according to the California Supreme Court, if you've had risky sex with someone, you'd better inform the one you're with.

The case involved the right of a wife, identified as Bridget B. to have been advised by her husband as to the exact state of his health.  Bridget B. tested positive for HIV in October 2000, three months after marrying John B.  In a groundbreaking 4-3 ruling (pdf doc), the California high court found liability for infecting a sexual partner extends not just to someone who knows he has the virus.  According to the plurality decision authored by Justice Marvin Baxter, it extends "to those situations where the actor, under the totality of circumstances, has reason to know of the infection."  Under that "constructive knowledge" standard, Bridget B. was entitled to question her husband about whether he engaged in unsafe sex and had symptoms consistent with HIV infection.

Two justices disagreed vehemently with the majority opinion.  In his dissent, Justice Carlos Moreno suggested the majority would be advised to pay heed to the unique context of HIV and "rushing into the complex terrain that constitutes AIDS policy."  He warned that accepting the notion of  establishing a constructive knowledge standard regarding transmission of HIV:

"potentially licenses invasions into the sexual privacy of all sexually active Californians and may even invite abuse of the judicial process ... With this decision the majority has opened a Pandora's box."
Justice Joyce Kennard joined Moreno in seeing "no need to decide the level of knowledge necessary to trigger the tort duty," saying the "ordinary test of relevance" was applicable to discovery in the case.  A third justice observed that the court was "ill equipped and ill advised to venture into an area the Legislature already has extensively addressed."

The ruling set aside a lower court decision which would have allowed Bridget B. to go back ten years into her husband's sexual history.  It imposed a six-month period preceding August 2000 as to how far back she can go into his medical and sexual history.  The only other jurisdiction ruling similarly to this case happened in 1993 when a federal court in Michigan issued a ruling in a suit brought against former NBA star Earvin "Magic" Johnson by a woman claiming he infected her with HIV.  That case was settled out of court (scroll down to fifth article) after the judge had dismissed a portion alleging the woman's daughter had suffered "emotional distress" as a result of her mother's infection.

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Everyone's an Expert

Toby Flip.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 03:27:27 AM EST

5.00 (informative)

There is (and will be forever, no doubt, as we are always going to be awkward when talking about sex) a lot of confusion, apocrypha and misinformation about HIV transmission and spread.  This synthesis http://www.sfaf.org/treatment/beta/b41/b41sexual.html (sorry, i'm new and an idiot so i don't know how to embed hyperlinks) is a comprehensive analysis of the many different vectors for HIV transmission.  There is no cut and dry here, and so many variables (other STDs, menstrual blood, viral loads, strains etc etc) that any bold statements like the ones we have seen here should immediately be called into question.

toby

Just cause you feel so good, do you have to drive me out of my head?

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Telling your partner your sexual history

nmiguy.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 02:40:43 PM EST

5.00 (interesting)

This is controversial.  What if you don't remember your sexual history?  What if you were raped or something you are quite ashamed of?  What if your previous sexual history is something your spouse would not approve of?  What if your fiancee, you thought she was a virgin, but then she is forced to confess she did the entire football team in a gang bang?  It could pretty much put an end to her chances of finding a spouse.  The courts are crossing a very dangerous line.  They are not dictating what is said between lovers and what goes on in their bedrooms.  People are entitled to their secrets.  People make mistakes, experience traumas, and should not be forced by the courts to relive them when entering into a sexual relationship that very well could be their happiness.  

"Gee honey, I'm not gay, but I did blow another kid when I was 10 years old.  Is that okay with you?"  I don't think the courts have the right to impose this.  Some things need to be kept out of the reach of even the courts.  If the guy knew he had HIV or AIDS and kept it from his spouse, he endangered her.  If he didn't, and didn't suspect it, then it is a tragic accident.  He shouldn't have to tell of every sexual experience he had with unprotected sex.  Most people can't remember every sex act they have committed.  

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Re: Telling your partner your sexual history

Milo.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 04:22:12 PM EST

5.00 (astute)

What if you don't remember your sexual history? What if you were raped or something you are quite ashamed of? What if your previous sexual history is something your spouse would not approve of? What if your fiancee, you thought she was a virgin, but then she is forced to confess she did the entire football team in a gang bang?

If she gang-banged the entire football team and said team was found to have members who were HIV+, I think she has an obligation to warn you she might be HIV+ or at least get tested. That seems to be more what the judges had in mind based on this quote:

"to those situations where the actor, under the totality of circumstances, has reason to know of the infection."

Wouldn't you expect her to warn you of something in that case? I don't think she's required to give you the details, but I think she should at least warn you upfront if she is likely HIV+.

-milo

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Re: Telling your partner your sexual history

MayorBob.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 06:32:28 PM EST

none

First of all, the ruling didn't say anything about you having to out your entire sexual history -- only that history going back no further than six months that's pertinent to the question of whether you should have known that you might have HIV or an STD.  Plus, the ruling doesn't say that you had to tell your partner about this prior to having sex with her or him.  However, if you do get hauled into court, charged by your former partner with having given her or him an unwanted parting gift from the relationship, you'd better be prepared to have your past six months examined with a fine tooth comb.  I realize part of the confusion over this point may have been caused by the title and lead paragraph of the write up.  For that I apologize.

Illegitimi non carborundum.

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Embarrasing...

David Flores.

Tue Jul 18, 2006 at 12:57:48 PM EST

2.66 (funny, funny)

If I've got to reveal my sexual history to every potential partner in the future, things could really get embarrasing. I wonder if I could be sued for "embellishing" things the other way, that is, to make my sexual history seem more... er... how do I put it... "robust."

"You know how when you grab a woman's breast... it feels like... a bag of sand."

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I tip my hat to the (pending) revolution

pO157.

Thu Jul 20, 2006 at 12:34:23 PM EST

none

I remember hearing that the availability of "free love" and whatnot seemed to correlate with the availability of The Pill and the associated changes in the attitudes of society.

Since the advent of HIV/AIDS in the '80s it appears that things may have shifted (mildly) back towards the other direction. Sure, your danger be reduced by taking precautions but "the H.I.V." likely remains a scary monster to many people who would otherwise be sexually active in less ahem puritan circumstances.

I can only imagine the amount of hedonistic hedonism that will come when "The Cure" is found.

...too bad by that point we'll likely all be too busy yelling at the neighborhood kids to get off our lawns to participate.

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Re: I tip my hat to the (pending) revolution

Steve Urkel.

Thu Jul 20, 2006 at 01:19:43 PM EST

1.00 (funny, obnoxious)

"but "the H.I.V." likely remains a scary monster to many people who would otherwise be sexually active"

That's only because of
homosexualist propaganda claiming everyone is at equal risk for AIDS. The truth is most ordinary heterosexual people are not at any sort of risk for AIDS. If you are a man and do not have sex with other men or use IV drugs, your chances of getting AIDS are practically non-existent. Women at risk of acquiring AIDS get it from men who caught it having anal sex in prison or from men who are IV drug users or are IV drug users themselves.  

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Re: I tip my hat to the (pending) revolution

MayorBob.

Thu Jul 20, 2006 at 01:49:36 PM EST

5.00 (brilliant, brilliant)

Nothing I like to read better than a fact-based analysis of AIDS written over a decade ago by an author who seems to have some "ethical questions" about his honesty and balance.  Oops, it seems he also has a problem reading half the stuff he comments on.

But of course those critiques of his shoddy journalism and highly selective reporting of facts were about his misrepresenting himself while reporting on the pharmaceutical industry and his alleged uncovering of the fallacy of Gulf War Syndrome.  Alas, he really doesn't do any better when it comes to pontificating on AIDS.  We should trust what your source has to say why?

By the way, are those homosexualists really lurking up every dark alley or what?

Illegitimi non carborundum.

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Re: I tip my hat to the (pending) revolution

Steve Urkel.

Thu Jul 20, 2006 at 02:13:49 PM EST

1.00

"a fact-based analysis of AIDS written over a decade ago"

Yes, we've had ten years to see if heterosexual AIDS was a myth or if we really were going to swamped by an epidemic of heterosexual AIDS cases. So what happened? You tell me.

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Re: I tip my hat to the (pending) revolution

Thalia.

Sun Jul 23, 2006 at 12:02:33 AM EST

none

Given that heterosexual African-American women are the highest new rate of infection of any group, I'm not seeing your argument.  Or are you saying that it's only hetero women who are it risk, rather than hetero men makes it a non-issue?

Thalia

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Re: I tip my hat to the (pending) revolution

zyxwvutsr.

Thu Jul 20, 2006 at 02:51:25 PM EST

none

Nothing I like to read better than a fact-based analysis of AIDS written over a decade ago by an author who seems to have some "ethical questions" about his honesty and balance
For all Urkel's trolling, MayorBob, he's not wrong about the core of his comment.  In fact, the article you cited supports the idea that female-to-male transmission of HIV is extremely uncommon in the US.  CDC data and other studies support that hypothesis.

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Re: I tip my hat to the (pending) revolution

MayorBob.

Thu Jul 20, 2006 at 05:22:44 PM EST

none

And Steve's trolling goes a bit beyond just alleging that HIV transmission among heterosexuals is unusual; unless I'm missing a huge point, he's saying that that method of transmission is near impossible or so unlikely we should really have no concern about it.  Yeah, I'm aware that, as a straight male who is faithful to the woman I've been married to for close to 35 years, I'm extremely unlikely to pick up HIV, much less die of AIDS.  But, even the link I offered that you said proves Steve's point doesn't say that heterosexual spread of AIDS is almost an impossibility.  Don't tell me you read all nine pages to that review.

Illegitimi non carborundum.

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Re: I tip my hat to the (pending) revolution

zyxwvutsr.

Thu Jul 20, 2006 at 07:09:13 PM EST

5.00

...even the link I offered that you said proves Steve's point doesn't say that heterosexual spread of AIDS is almost an impossibility
No, it says the same thing I wrote above: transmission of HIV from a woman to a man, in the United States, is extremely rare.  That is true for biological as well as cultural reasons.  Heterosexual spread of HIV, in the US, is almost entirely confined to 1) hard core users of illicit drugs and 2) women who have sex with bisexual men. That is supported by the text of the article you linked to (its nine pages are not really that long - have a look at the printer-friendly page, which is much easier to read) and the summary of the JAMA article I linked to.

Those conclusions are not medically controversial.  But they are socially controversial for a number of reasons, including one that is mentioned in the Washington Monthly article:

Homosexuals and researchers saw how AIDS went ignored when it was perceived as a "gay disease." Only once the fear-mongering that Fumento documents convinced mainstream America that it was at risk, did the federal funds begin to flow. Persuading the public that the virus trains its deadly fury on drug users (a despised group) and minorities (a neglected and often powerless one), may now shut off the spigot
I am not in complete agreement with the idea posed in that paragraph, because it is far too simplistic.  (There was also, for instance, the expectation that behavioral changes could halt the spread of HIV.  That, obviously, proved to be overly optimistic.) But the thought that, in a democracy, the  nation is better off if the voters are ignorant about the nuances of a public health problem doesn't sit well with me.

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Maybe it's more what he says than how he says it

koos.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 07:02:48 AM EST

2.00

zyx,

QUOTE FROM CLUELESS: "That's only because of homo-sexualist propaganda claiming everyone is at equal risk for AIDS."

Isn't risk of AIDS based entirely upon safe-sex-having and non-needle-sharing... it's about FLUID TRANSMISSION, right? That's what you're basically saying, right? And, once again, if it's possible that AIDS is transmitted hetero-to-hetero somehow, why wouldn't we at least be a little precautious about it? Why would you ever argue against educating people about potential harms?

AFAIK, the only thing sexuality has to do with the spread of any disease are the initial vectors of where the disease entered into the populace, and, as you said zyx, what the social customs of those sub-populations.

Anyway, you're standing up for a dude how un-ironically uses "homosexualist". He also seems to think there's a huge "homosexualist conspiracy", with propaganda and everything (too bad he wasn't invited, huh?) He also seems to think that no man ever got AIDS from a woman. Apparently, he also seems to think AIDS can recognize national borders.

{ k }

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Re: Maybe it's more what he says than how he says

zyxwvutsr.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 08:14:44 AM EST

4.00

Why would you ever argue against educating people about potential harms?
I am arguing for the exact opposite.  If someone says that the general population is at risk for contracting HIV because it's "no longer a gay disease" then they are spreading disinformation. From an epidemiological standpoint, AIDS, in the United States, was always a disease of small sub-populations, and that remains true today. If you want to promote education - actual knowledge of the truth - then you should want people to understand the vectors that truly contribute to HIV spread: IV drug use and sex with men who participate in gay sex.  

That is not to say (as the troll suggested) that female-to-male HIV transmission of HIV is impossible.  It certainly is possible, and is, in some small sub-populations, a significant risk. But it was alarmist to have said, as some people were back in the 1980s and 1990s, that there was a significant risk of HIV breaking out into the general population in the US.

Anyway, you're standing up for a dude how un-ironically uses "homosexualist". He also seems to think there's a huge "homosexualist conspiracy", with propaganda and everything...
I'm not standing up for anyone.  I was merely pointing out that when he wrote, "If you are a man and do not have sex with other men or use IV drugs, your chances of getting AIDS are practically non-existent," he was telling the truth.

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Fair enough

koos.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 09:41:19 AM EST

none

Maybe I'm too paternalistic, or too into prevention instead of cure. I was raised to understand that it's "better to be safe than sorry". That's why I'd rather we overstate the risk of infection of a deadly disease than understate it. The worse thing I see happening my way is that people use condoms more (or, if I thought abstinence education worked, perhaps people might have less sex...). You're way seems to indicate that people might have more sex without protection, which, I fear will lead to at least a small percentage of people being dead. Since no one dies my way, and the costs are reasonable to me, I think it trumps yours.

To each their own, I guess,
{ k }

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Re: Fair enough

zyxwvutsr.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 10:34:25 AM EST

3.50 (interesting)

...I'd rather we overstate the risk...Since no one dies my way, and the costs are reasonable to me, I think it trumps yours
Your way is similar to the strategy used by the government in the war on drugs and, by some, in attacking violent video games. Few people are anywhere near stupid enough to believe that smoking a joint is an easy gateway to hard-core drug use or that too many hours playing Doom will turn an otherwise well-adjusted teen into a murderous psychopath. Common sense tells them otherwise, just as common sense tells most people that they have little reason to fear HIV.

Your way stretches the truth, almost to its breaking point. It leads, inevitably, to cynicism about the government, and distrust in its motives.

I think it is better to tell people the full truth: that unless you have promiscuous gay sex, or have unprotected sex with extremely promiscuous people, or (for a woman) have sex with a bisexual man, or use illicit IV drugs, you are almost certainly not going to get HIV. The full truth allows people to make reasoned and informed decisions about how to conduct their lives. Your way, if successful, leads them to believe that, for instance, having unprotected sex with a random person is just as risky as the behaviors I listed above. That is simply not true and leads to people making misinformed decisions.

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Re: Fair enough

ms sue.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 10:51:43 AM EST

5.00 (astute)

I think it is better to tell people the full truth: that unless you have promiscuous gay sex, or have unprotected sex with extremely promiscuous people, or (for a woman) have sex with a bisexual man, or use illicit IV drugs, you are almost certainly not going to get HIV. The full truth allows people to make reasoned and informed decisions about how to conduct their lives. Your way, if successful, leads them to believe that, for instance, having unprotected sex with a random person is just as risky as the behaviors I listed above. That is simply not true and leads to people making misinformed decisions. (emphasis mine)

That random person may be "extremely promiscuous." So why not allow for koos's suggestion regarding sensible prevention?

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Re: Fair enough

zyxwvutsr.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 11:06:54 AM EST

none

...why not allow for koos's suggestion regarding sensible prevention?
I already explained why: honesty is the best policy. Encouraging government officials to lie in an attempt to further a social cause is especially bad.  (There is, by the way, another discussion running on this site about government-funded clinic employees providing bad public health information in an effort to discourage abortion.  Do you approve of their tactics?)

Let me give an example to counter your hypothetical: Driving 100mph is quite a lot more dangerous than driving 55mph.  Yet it is possible to lose control of your car and be killed when driving 55. Should we teach students learning how to drive that driving 55 is just as dangerous as driving 100, or should we tell them the truth and let them evaluate the relative risk themselves? I say we should tell them to always wear their seat belt, but maintain a safe speed nonetheless.

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Re: Fair enough

ms sue.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 12:19:28 PM EST

5.00 (astute)

Advising sensible prevention does not equal prevarication. You yourself said that having sex with extremely promiscuous people is risky. When one has sex with "random" people, that risk factor comes into play. So it makes sense to suggest to people that when having sex with someone they do not know well or at all that they should take precautions.

I don't understand any objection to such counsel.  

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Re: Fair enough

zyxwvutsr.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 12:38:19 PM EST

none

So it makes sense to suggest...they should take precautions.

I don't understand any objection to such counsel

I never said I objected to that. I objected to the idea that we should "overstate the risk of infection" in order to get more people to take precautions.

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A reply to the entire argument

koos.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 05:06:28 PM EST

none

zyx::

My understanding of your argument is as follows (and please let me know if I am wrong): (i) the government has overestimated the risk of harm certain populations have when it comes to HIV/AIDS infection, (ii) in order to prevent the citizenry from becoming cynical about the government*, it should instead only tell people the exact data regarding these risks.

First, I agree with you that honesty is the best policy when it comes to stating facts. When it comes to stating risk of harm (which, as you yourself state, is highly dependent on a number of factors)? Not so much. I see your point about marijuana and video game usage, but I also see at least one major distinction - in your instances the cost the government is asking people to pay is complete forebearance (stop making violent video games! stop smoking pot!), whereas in the instance of AIDS education all that is being asked of the citizenry is to wear a condom, or at least be aware of the danger and discuss things with your potential sexual partner (do you do intravenous drugs? are you "promiscuous"? are you a man who sleeps with other men?). Abstinence is not the only solution to this dilemma (and proll'y doesn't work, natch), very few people are headed to jail over this policy, and very little govenrment money is being spent in the process (one might even argue that differentiating between populations would cost the government more in educational initiatives).

Second, I don't mean to prevaricate, but I never said we "should" overstate risk in order to influence political policy. If I implied such a thing, I am sorry. I certainly didn't mean to do so. What I intended to convey was this: if we have to choose (as we often do when trying to boil a complex subject down for, say, a highschool population) between over- or understating risk, I'd rather we choose the former, unless the cost of education and preventing that risk (here use of condoms or abstinence) outweighs the likelihood of harm times the cost of that harm if it occurs (here, death of at least some part of the population). See Hand, Billings Learned.

Third, I take umbrage at the idea that "common sense" indicates that people won't get AIDS from heterosexual sex. I just don't see how "common" the knowledge is about other people's sexually transmitted diseases (as opposed to, say, the common knowledge that second hand smoke smells bad and makes people cough). Additionally, I would like to state for the record that humans are amazingly bad when it comes to their own risk assesment.

{ k }

* Seriously, did you read any posts on Plastic or on TnT? Cynicism of the government certainly isn't new, and it maybe isn't the worst thing in the world for a representative government. After all, it allows us to have this sort of discussion. I simply can't reconcile the potential costs you appear willing to bear against the costs of the current regime.

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Open letter

Steve Urkel.

Thu Jul 20, 2006 at 01:29:30 PM EST

1.00

To whomever moderated the above obnoxious, feel free to provide the name of a man who got AIDS from having sex with a woman.  

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Re: Open letter

David Flores.

Thu Jul 20, 2006 at 04:02:16 PM EST

5.00 (brilliant, brilliant)

Magic Johnson

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Hmmmm

Steve Urkel.

Thu Jul 20, 2006 at 06:03:41 PM EST

none

It's possible that, unlike all the other highly promiscuous men in the NBA (including non of Magics teamates, who theoretically would be banging at least some of the same chicks he did), NFL, MLB, NHL, unlike all the promiscuous actors and rock musicians, Magic caught AIDS from a woman.* Which would make him unluckiest man in the world. Or else he was on the down low.

Bet much Flores?  

*Has a single non-gay or non-IV drug user actor or musician ever been diagnosed with AIDS? I guess those guys in Motley Crue practiced safe sex every single time. Because they are really responsible chaps.

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Re: Hmmmm

socky.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 03:40:33 AM EST

none

This is well off the topic I think you are trying to steer the thread onto, but assuming that the strongest version of your suspicion were true, what would a sensible response be from any individual?

Let's see, no man can catch a deadly disease from having penetrative sex* with a woman.

On the other hand, a very large proportion of men (including the most "red-blooded" examples you can think of) are having sex with other men and probably carrying said deadly disease. Women can catch this from sex with an infected man.

Conclusion: in the absence of perfect information, or prophylactic measures, women should really not have sex with any men. Men should exclusively have sex with women.
Nobody's going to have any fun at all.

Here's my practical fudge: how about we use condoms and testing (and for really lucky people, honesty) and then we can get back to the shagging? Oh, that was sort of where everyone else on the thread was already.

*not clear from your statements if there are limits, but let's assume "of any sort"

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Re: Open letter

cutta.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 08:11:29 AM EST

4.00 (informative)

Fela Kuti.

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Re: Open letter

Steve Urkel.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 12:50:35 PM EST

none

Fela Kuti spent 20 months in prison.

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Re: Open letter

koos.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 08:37:08 AM EST

4.00 (astute)

Please see: Africa, AIDS Epidemic.

Unless you also think all those foreign black men are gay? or reckless drug users?

{ k }

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Re: Open letter

Steve Urkel.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 12:58:23 PM EST

1.00 (obnoxious)

Blacks are homosexualists at higher rates than whites, but even taking that into account it is obvious that AIDS in Africa is different than AIDS here. Why not try and figure this out, instead of continuing to propagate the nonsense that "We are all equally at risk for AIDS"?

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Trick Answer

uncarved block.

Sun Jul 23, 2006 at 09:43:42 AM EST

none

My uncle, but I'm not about to throw that info on the Net just to win an argument with you.
   The story: he was diagnosed with colon cancer at an early age (38, IIRC), and in the process the blood tests revealed he was HIV positive. This was in 1991-2, and he nearly died five years later from weight loss and secondary disease; now, thanks to better drugs, he's had to go on a diet. That's why it took me two days to remember he has AIDS-- things have been fairly normal for so long that when I do return to visit, it's easy to forget the bad times.
   How did he get it? He's not really sure, though he says gay sex or IV drugs weren't the cause. Since he's admitted to doing every drug he could get (it was meth that caused the car wreck that caused him to be born again in the late 80s), if he says he never shot up, I believe it. He did have a lot of risky sex in the early 80s-- went on the road for a year when he found his wife in bed with his best friend, and by his accounts bedded every woman he could. Would he cop to a gay encounter, especially now that he's found God? Hard to say. One thing about folks who are so open with their personal lives is that it can be easy to keep one or two secrets and still sound as if you've revealed everything. On a hunch I'd say no,  though I doubt you'll believe it.
   Is my uncle a common case? No, but then you were the one who set the bar at zero cases.

Ex ignorantia ad sapientiam; e luce ad tenebras

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Umn, Yeah

uncarved block.

Thu Jul 20, 2006 at 10:20:14 PM EST

none

Except that heterosexual sex usually involves getting the consent of a woman. I don't know for sure- I wasn't there- but the whole "sexual revolution" involved women suddenly dropping their sexual inhibitions, more than the men, at least if the statistics about prostitution are anywhere near correct. A large percentage of men were active with many women before the 60s, and the big change was in the amount of free partners, near as I can tell.
   You guys can talk about female to male infection all day, but it really does seem beside the point when the talk is about "chilling sexual hedonism." Whether or not such "chilling" is going on is another matter; Tom Wolfe apparently didn't find much evidence of it when he did research at college campuses, but then again I'm not horribly sanguine about Tom being an unbiased observer either . . .

Ex ignorantia ad sapientiam; e luce ad tenebras

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Who Wins?

uncarved block.

Sat Jul 22, 2006 at 10:59:54 PM EST

none

After spending a day or more musing about this, it occurred to me that a whole lot of people benefit from spreading the notion that heterosexual transmission of AIDS presents a significant risk. Sadly for Urkel, none of these require a minority conspiracy exercising control.
   First off, lets follow the money. Who's benefited the most from the safe sex boom? Condom makers, that's who, since no other contraceptive device works by preventing fluid transmission. Condom makers finally won the chance to advertise on television thanks to AIDS, and funny, I don't recall ever seeing any guy on guy action in those ads-- too small of a market, I guess. Ads today may be able to take funny, lighthearted approaches, but back when perceptions were being made early on, it was all deadly serious. If the conversation is about popular perceptions, I'll take ad campaigns over medical information every time.
   What of the political sphere? The sex education liberals, arguing for increased access to information in high school and junior high got a lot more leverage when "sex can cause death!" became the theme, since preventing teenage death is a lot more emotional than preventing teenage herpes. (And let's not forget that somebody has to supply those free condoms, meaning either money or free advertising.)
   Safe sex conservatives aren't likely to raise much fuss either, since abstinence only programs also benefit from the threat of dead teens. Dwelling too much on the sufferers of AIDS also is a losing proposition, since gay men dying in beds are more sympathetic, and muddy the moral waters too much. No less than Rush Limbaugh backed off from trying to turn AIDS into a gay only issue back around 1993 (he may have reversed since then, I don't know), and I seriously doubt it was because the 'gay mafia' made him an offer he couldn't refuse. In any case, the whole "sex causes death!" subtext that was so popular with syphilis and masturbation is better for summoning moral outrage than "sex leads to annoying diseases."
   Is this where the science is at? Who cares, when there's money and/or power at stake?

Ex ignorantia ad sapientiam; e luce ad tenebras

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Not sure about that Steve

nmiguy.

Fri Jul 21, 2006 at 02:29:23 PM EST

none

Steve, I knew a woman who contracted AIDS back in teh 1980's from a blood transfusion when she was giving birth to her daughter.  The birth went bad, she lost a lot of blood and at the time, blood was not screened for HIV/AIDS.  She died in 1990, leaving her young daughter to the care of her husband.  Perhaps this is the exceptional case.  AIDS was called the "gay plague" back in the days when Tom Hanks made it a mainstream discussion topic.  I am no expert, but I believe it is now commonly accepted that unprotected sex among heterosexual couples can transmit the disease pretty well.  

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