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Granite State Method For Stopping Office Gossip - Fire The Gossiper

MayorBob.

Posted to Etcetera on Thu May 24, 2007 at 08:43:36 AM EST (promoted by port1080). RSS.

How you react to this story will likely be determined by how you feel about office gossip.  Is it a harmless pastime; just another innocent opportunity for friends to share interesting information and idle chitchat?  Or is it a potentially corrosive, if not slanderous, activity which can negatively affect innocent people's lives?  We'll let you be the judge of what it is in the case of the Hooksett Four.

The case begins back in April in Hooksett, New Hampshire when three town workers were fired from their jobs.  The three workers: Sandra Piper, Jessica Skorupski and Michelle Bonsteel were soon joined by a fourth, Joanne Drewniak, as ex-employees of Hooksett.  All four employees were longtime town workers; Bonsteel had worked there for three years and Piper had been on the payroll for over 27 years.  The offense which got them canned was that they were all implicated in a gossip session involving rumors that town administrator David Jodoin had been having an affair with a subordinate.  Apparently, the gossiping occurred on a lunch break and didn't extend to the time when the four were performing their duties for the town.

Even the four gossipers admit that the rumors were untrue, but they claim they had no knowledge of that when they were discussing the item.  But, in the minds of their employer, they should have dug a little deeper into the story before they began gossiping about it because they were terminated for "gossip, whispering, and an unfriendly environment are causing poor morale and interfering with the efficient performance of town business."  But according to B.J. Branch, an attorney representing two of the four, they were merely discussing an item they had each heard someplace else.  Branch denies they knowingly passed on untrue information and his law partner essentially says, "office gossip - everyone does it."  Branch said the original discussion had to do with why Jodoin's subordinate had received a pay raise and one of the women mentioned the rumor about the affair and on it went.

The four all want their jobs back and Branch has defended two of them before town council which is expected to make a decision on whether to hire Drewniak and Skorupski back by week's end.  The ABC news story has already drawn about 500 comments some of them suggesting the four should have been fired and several offering personal stories about just how damaging office gossip can be.  The local paper took a poll and, with close to 500 respondents, the consensus was that gossiping shouldn't be cause for dismissal.

Tags: edited by Port1080, written by MayorBob, work, gossip, firing (all tags)

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You know, *I* heard it was just the tipping point

3fingerspointback.

Thu May 24, 2007 at 09:15:05 PM EST

5.00 (brilliant)

Reading between the lines (and one of the ABC reader comments), the fired women come across as unpleasant, stupid and incompetent people.  Exactly the types who would see someone younger than them get promoted, then conclude that it could only have been a case of hanky-panky.  So they start some rumors about the new girl, keep it going up until people start wonder why exactly they're being kept around, and they get dropped.  Yeah, I bet that gossip session only lasted one lunch break and didn't extend into the office.  That sure sounds a lot like the gossip I've seen in places I've worked.  But hey, let's go to the AP story for another view...

"I really don't think it's fair," Burbank, 61, said between bites of french fries. "We all know everybody gossips about their bosses."

Thanks for that imagery, nameless AP reporter!

(is 3fingerspointback)

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Editing Of Polls.

MayorBob.

Thu May 24, 2007 at 09:02:56 AM EST

none

There was an excellent point made by uncarved block in the subqueue regarding the poll I threw together on this sub.  He suggested adding another choice to the poll:

I think gossiping is wrong, but have done it because sometimes it's the only way to find out what's really going on at work.

Which is an apt question I hadn't thought of when I put together the poll.  I'm wondering if there might be any way of allowing for some sort of community edit to a poll?  Not to allow the ability to remove a question but rather giving everyone a single chance to add a question?  Or are polls a waste of time?

I know there are times when I get done a write up and, frankly, I just have run out of the steam necessary to whipping up a good poll.  Usually, I'll just drop it and submit the write up.  But, I'm wondering if enough people at TnT really care all that much about the polls or would they be made more interesting if it were possible for more members of the community to construct a poll?

Following all that, what's your feeling about uncarved block's most excellent poll choice.      

Illegitimi non carborundum.

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I Hear Ya

uncarved block.

Thu May 24, 2007 at 06:46:05 PM EST

none

   I spent most of a day (here and there) dickering over the Squirrel Nut Zippers sub, finding links and pondering the flow. By the time it was all over, all the gaps in my writing were getting larger and not smaller ("papers are never finished, merely handed over in despair" as a prof of mine put it), and putting even three more minutes into a poll was only going to add to the frustration.
    I asked about the addition because the power editors have here to alter more than the submission at hand had never crossed my mind-- I just flat out didn't know the answer, and in that situation, an open question seemed better than an e-mail or PM. So anyone want to chime in whether it's currently possible, or could be in the future? It's just a minor thing, so no rush.

Ex ignorantia ad sapientiam; e luce ad tenebras

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Re: Editing Of Polls.

1fastdog.

Thu May 24, 2007 at 08:59:21 PM EST

none

 I'm wondering if there might be any way of allowing for some sort of community edit to a poll?  Not to allow the ability to remove a question but rather giving everyone a single chance to add a question?

Polls may be edited at will by one of us editorial types - if you take a look at your poll, you'll notice I've added Uncarved's question that you highlighted in your post.
As an editor, I'd be hesitant to change polls unless the subber specifically requested a change. As for community additions/editing of polls... that's probably not a good idea as people may be tempted to dick around with the poll strictly for shits and giggles instead of poll improvement. Plus, it's not technically practical, anyway as you'd have to grant everyone administrative access to the site. And that's definitely not a good idea.

Somewhere in my soul, there's always Rock -n- Roll... Joe Strummer

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Re: Editing Of Polls.

MayorBob.

Thu May 24, 2007 at 09:38:45 PM EST

none

Thanks for the answer and for adding the choice to the poll.  You're, of course, absolutely right about restricting the ability to editors.

Illegitimi non carborundum.

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Depends on the Gossip

nmiguy.

Thu May 24, 2007 at 10:45:51 AM EST

none

If the gossip in the office is related to work and working conditions, I think it is fair game.  If there are rumors that someone will get a raise and be your new boss, or if there are rumors of lay offs or some organizational change, or massive changes in your work, you should be free to gossip about it.  

BUT, when you start gossiping about a co-worker's personal life, spreading rumors and things, you should consider that you should be fired for this type of action.  Depending on the damage done, if it is minimal, then a warning, but if it is something like "he's cheating on his wife" or "he's sleeping with his secretary" yeah that gossiper deserves to be fired.  

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Re: Depends on the Gossip

thefadd.

Fri May 25, 2007 at 02:31:30 PM EST

none

I think it should fall under the general realm of any other negative office behavior like poor performance or basic sexual harrassment. A person has to be apprised of and given the opportunity to improve upon the things that their boss or coworkers do not approve of. If they do not show a willingness or ability to improve, they should be made aware of this through the general review process. At the very least, failure to follow such proceedures opens you up to lawsuits like this.

make it rain you nappy headed ho's

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Re: Depends on the Gossip

nmiguy.

Tue May 29, 2007 at 09:53:53 AM EST

none

So you think the gossipers deserved a chance to either right what was wronged by them or to change their behavior?  That is not unreasonable, except that if it were a sexual harassment by a man, he would be out right quick.  Should there be a double standard when it comes down to creating a hostile workplace atmosphere?  

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Re: Depends on the Gossip

Thalia.

Tue May 29, 2007 at 07:56:07 AM EST

none

But in this case the gossip was work related, they were talking about someone who had gotten a raise, and suggesting that it may have been for non-work-related activities with the boss.  I think this is a big step towards the fired-if-you-say-something-negative about the boss area, which I'm not too fond of.  That said, employment is at will, so they can be fired for just being generally unpleasant too.

Thalia

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Re: Depends on the Gossip

thefadd.

Tue May 29, 2007 at 02:04:51 PM EST

none

It's funny to me how often employers screw that up. Employment typically is at will and yet people manage to go out of their way to find innapropriate reasons to fire people all the time.

make it rain you nappy headed ho's

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Re: Depends on the Gossip

zyxwvutsr.

Tue May 29, 2007 at 07:18:07 PM EST

none

Employment in the US is never completely at will. True at will employment would me there was never an inappropriate reason to fire someone.

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In the real world

wetkarma.

Thu May 24, 2007 at 02:30:43 PM EST

none

"Gossip, whispering, and an unfriendly environment are causing poor morale and interfering with the efficient performance of town business."

I'm a fan of at-will employment. If you want someone to no longer work for you, then you fire them. No muss, no fuss. However when you walk down the path of creating rationale and guidelines (especially in government) for employee termination, then you get your classic slippery slope.

The first thing I thought of when reading this story is that the gossip in question qualified as sexual harassment. You might think I'm kidding, but sexual harassment laws are VERY broad and here is whats key: had the town not taken action, then the guy/girl being gossipped about could have held them liable after he complained.

Just talking about someones physical appearance ("Ms Sue has nice tits") qualifies.

note (taken from the EEOC):

The harasser may be completely unaware that his or her behavior is offensive or constitutes sexual harassment or may be completely unaware that his or her actions could be unlawful.

And finally (and most compelling taken from Wikipedia when describing categories of sexual harassers):


One-of-the-Gang Often motivated by bravado or competition, or because the harasser(s) think it is funny (AAUW 2006), One-of-the-gang harassment occurs when groups of men or women embarrass others with lewd comments, physical evaluations, or other unwanted sexual attention. Harassers may act individually in order to belong or impress the others, or groups may gang up on a particular target. An extreme example is Tailhook '91 during which participants sexually abused seven men and 83 women as part of a three-day aviator convention.[12]

I don't know if these women were actually guilty of violating sexual harassment laws, or even the town's code of conduct -- but it seems likely.

Which should make you think about what you say to people at work eh?

Memory is a strange bell, jubilee and knell.

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Re: Granite State Method For Stopping Office Gossi

permazorch.

Mon May 28, 2007 at 04:57:00 PM EST

none

I love to gossip, I'm ashamed to admit.
I love our story polls, I'm not ashamed a bit.

----- The earth may fail, but we will quiver

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