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Trying To Combat Statutory Rape - This Time With Sexy Results.

MayorBob.

Posted to Media on Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 03:36:04 AM EST (promoted by port1080). RSS.

The Family Violence Partnership of Milwaukee, Wisconsin wants you to know that statutory rape is a bad thing.  So, they've begun running a print ad to drive home that message.  What they're trying to combat is the often-proffered excuse that "but she looked old enough."  Their message is, even if she has the body, she might not be old enough to have sex.  The part that's raising concerns is, in order to graphically drive home their point, they applied some Photoshop skills to add boobies to a young model (might be considered NSFW in some places).

Although the adrants blogger says he understands the purpose of the ad, he questions whether digitally enhancing underaged models to turn them into sex objects is "warranted."  Most of the commentary at copyranter concurred with the campaign being more gross and sick than informative.  Jezebel.com also took issue with message run with the black girl -- "Just because she has the body, doesn't mean she has the brain."  Of course, in addition to being potentially racist, it misses the point that, even if she does have the brain, she's still underage.

Not everyone is slamming the campaign or even dismissing it as a well-meaning yet missed attempt.  A commenter at copyranter.com leapt to its defense and offered some sobering facts:

"The campaign is meant to get adult men's attention and make them feel creepy about targeting young teen girls for sex. Over 70% of the babies born to underage teen moms in Milwaukee are fathered by adult men 20 and over."

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Creepiest ad campaign ever

joshv.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 07:31:37 AM EST

3.50 (interesting)

I think what's making us all feel oogy is that we've never actually seen anyone who looks like that in real life.  Typically if a girl is sexually mature at a younger age and looks older than she is, all of her looks older.  I've never personally seen an 18 year old body with a 12 year old face - well, until now.

Can somebody with some legal chops tell me what happens if a 16 year old who looks 20 comes on to you in a bar, and you take her home and sleep with her.  Can you be prosecuted for statutory rape?  What if you ask her age and she responds "21"?  What if you further ask to see her ID, and she shows you a fake ID (that looks real) that shows her age to be 21?

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Re: Creepiest ad campaign ever

wetkarma.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 08:17:47 AM EST

4.50 (astute, interesting, informative)


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Can somebody with some legal chops tell me what happens if a 16 year old who looks 20 comes on to you in a bar, and you take her home and sleep with her.  Can you be prosecuted for statutory rape?

Yes.


What if you ask her age and she responds "21"?  What if you further ask to see her ID, and she shows you a fake ID (that looks real) that shows her age to be 21?

Irrelevant to the law.  Her consent or deceit cannot be used as a defense.

I hope ms. sue jumps in and explains why this is a good approach - I've had quite a few discussions with her on this very subject.

Memory is a strange bell, jubilee and knell.

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Re: Creepiest ad campaign ever

joshv.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 10:04:39 AM EST

4.66 (brilliant, astute, interesting)

The fact that a man, with perfectly normal sexual urges, who meets a sexual mature girl in a bar, does all that is in his power to ensure that she's 18 or over, and then sleeps with her, could then end up in prison and labeled a sex offender for life strikes me as more than a little extreme.

There is a whole spectrum of consent and ability to consent, as well as mental and physical maturity.  A bright line at 18 just doesn't seem to cut it.  Fundamentally I think most people want the punishment to be in some way proportional to the harm.  I see no harm in a consensual encounter between a 16 year old and an adult, especially if she actively sought out the encounter.  Further I see no utility in lumping the "rapist" together on a list with people who have uncontrollable urges to have sex with 10 year old boys and girls, or people who've been convicted of breaking into houses and raping women in the middle of the night.

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Re: Creepiest ad campaign ever

Degee.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 10:18:38 AM EST

4.75 (funny, funny, funny)

"does all that is in his power to ensure that she's 18 or over"

Umm hey babe, before we head to my place, do you mind if we, umm swing by the cop shop?

Huh? Why?

Just need to run a background check, uh whats your social insurance number?

Wow It's really great that you want to know the real me...

Am I a great person? Hell no - by most metrics I'm pretty much an asshole. -TSlothrop

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Re: Creepiest ad campaign ever

ms sue.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 10:27:12 AM EST

4.66 (interesting, interesting, astute)

I hope ms. sue jumps in and explains why this is a good approach - I've had quite a few discussions with her on this very subject.

While we may have touched on this exact situation, our discussions have been on a different, broader aspect altogether. If you want me to dredge that up here, I will. Otherwise, I'll stay on topic.

I agree with the Mayor that in most cases, an adult will have some sense of the age of his desired partner but that he chooses to ignore that sense and believe the deception. Furthermore, it is up to us to know the law in our particular state. The majority of states set it at 16. I think that is a reasonable "bright line."

That said, I am not comfortable with any charge or sentencing that would ignore the specifics of any one case.

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consenting to sex

wetkarma.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 10:48:33 AM EST

4.50 (interesting, informative)


While we may have touched on this exact situation, our discussions have been on a different, broader aspect altogether. If you want me to dredge that up here, I will. Otherwise, I'll stay on topic.

Allow me. Here is a Trees and Things story where various members (including myself) went into the various legal citations and interpretations. It recaps both ms. sue and my position nicely - in our own words as it were.

Our key disagreement is that adults have no ability to argue that the child gave informed consent (legal concept) because under the law its impossible for a child to give such consent.

Memory is a strange bell, jubilee and knell.

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Re: consenting to sex

ms sue.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 11:02:55 AM EST

4.33 (informative, informative, interesting)

I see that you insist. So be it. Yes, you are basically right about our disagreement. Let me highlight your words to which I still take great exception:

Anyway in re: to favoring no legal sanctions whatsover against adults having sex with children of any age? -- I've tried to explain a more nuanced position. I favor no -automatic- legal sanctions adults having sex with children.

I believe that adults should have the ability to offer a defense/opportunity to prove that the child in question was capable of, and indeed did give informed consent. Currently based on an arbitrary magic age, it is presumed under the law, that a person is incapable of informed consent.

I disagree strongly with this.

The opportunity to offer proof of informed consent should be considered in any case.

Since you would allow for the defense of informed consent from a child of any age, I don't see this as a nuanced position whatsoever. In fact, because I'm too lazy at the moment to rehash this old debate, here was my response way back then, by which I still stand most strongly:

Thank you for your reply. This subthread between us began with my calling you on labeling pedophilia as a mere hang-up and escalated when I realized that you advocate no laws whatsoever to protect children from sexual predators, regardless of the age of the child. If I misunderstand or misinterpret your POV, let me know.

In one post you implied (through sarcasm) that I ignore both human biology and psychology, along with historical human practices. I would suggest, without sarcasm, that you ignore one crucial aspect of all the above and that is modern society's more developed understanding of the differences between young children (even adolescents) and adults. I think you also ignore a basic human instinct to protect and provide for our offspring.

It seems that you believe that your position is the nuanced one, yet your solution, based on an exaggerated absolute either/or as expressed in your last paragraph, hardly qualifies. There are myriad ways to protect both adults and children without totally erasing any delineation between childhood and adulthood.

I would wager that it would be very difficult to find more than a handful of  parents -- or those can empathize with them -- who would nod in agreement with your premise that there should be "no legal sanctions" against "adults having sex with children." I suggest that your view -- and the chance that you said you're willing to take -- is not one borne of reality but rather derives from some libertarian notion that is best left as a rhetorical exercise.  

That's about it, wetkarma. I'm still unclear as to why you called me into this discussion. Neither one of us convinced the other last time.

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Re: consenting to sex

PenitenziAgite.

Thu Feb 07, 2008 at 09:41:09 AM EST

4.00 (astute)

There are children, and then there are adolescents who are under the age of consent.  It is very hard to think of a situation where sex with a pre-adolescent child should be ok.  In fact, I am all for that being illegal.  

However, there are 15 year olds who are capable of consent, just as there are 21 year olds whose maturity calls consent into question.  The law recognizes that magical age, but consent is possible under the age of consent, the letter of the law notwithstanding.

sierra tango foxtrot uniform

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Re: consenting to sex

ms sue.

Thu Feb 07, 2008 at 04:05:25 PM EST

4.33 (interesting, astute, astute)

There are children, and then there are adolescents who are under the age of consent.  It is very hard to think of a situation where sex with a pre-adolescent child should be ok.  In fact, I am all for that being illegal.  

So I'm not at all clear, then, as to how your reply is relevant to my post.

My primary objection to wetkarma's POV is that he sees no need for statutory rape laws at all; he sees no age distinction whatsoever in terms of the ability to use the informed consent defense:

The opportunity to offer proof of informed consent should be considered in any case.

When he says "any," he means "any."

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Re: consenting to sex

thefadd.

Thu Feb 07, 2008 at 01:14:33 PM EST

3.66 (interesting, astute)

While it is despicable for an adult to have sex with a teenager it is a whole other level over and above any other considerations for engaging in sexual relations with someone who is prepubescent. The fact is, once humans hit puberty, it's perfectly natural for them to become curious in exploration and the relatively wide range of consent laws from state to state is demonstrative in its own right of how murky and unresolved society's moral take on the sex lives of 14-18 year olds is.

It is easy to buy small plaster models of what you think life is like.

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Re: consenting to sex

postillion.

Thu Feb 14, 2008 at 12:40:28 AM EST

none

There is also res ipsa loquitor [the thing speaks for itself] in law that can be applied in cases where it's clearly child molestation or rape of a child as opposed to statutory rape.

In other words, I think that most everyone can agree that a child who looks and appears to be seven should not have sexual advances made by an adult.  This is clearly a case where the adult knew the child to be a child...res ipsa loquitor.

However, when a "child" of sixteen, who has been designated a child by societal terms, but who can easily be mistaken for 21 gives consent to an adult, it's a very different case.

Appearances are very deceptive in regards to age.  I should know.  I am in my mid-thirties and I am still being carded for everything, including cigarettes. I've had people laugh in my face when they see my age on my ID.

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Re: consenting to sex

ms sue.

Thu Feb 14, 2008 at 11:06:38 AM EST

none

See my reply to thefadd.

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Re: Creepiest ad campaign ever

JimmyHavok.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 06:56:24 PM EST

3.75 (funny, funny, funny)

If she's in a bar, she ought to be at least 21.  In fact, that's my cut-off age for sex, because she's going to have to go fetch a sixpack in the morning.

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Re: Creepiest ad campaign ever

joshv.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 10:14:58 PM EST

4.25 (astute, astute, brilliant)

Yeah, I don't imagine anyone under 21 has ever managed to get into a bar.

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Re: Creepiest ad campaign ever

JimmyHavok.

Thu Feb 07, 2008 at 02:20:31 AM EST

3.50 (astute)

If she's in a bar, asking to see ID won't do you much good, since even if she shows you a fake, you're still screwed according to the doctrine of "you shoulda known better."  So I guess it's best not to go home with anyone you don't know from elementary school.

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Re: Creepiest ad campaign ever

delete me.

Thu Feb 07, 2008 at 03:09:33 AM EST

4.66 (funny, funny, brilliant)

Or just get all your dating done while you're still in elementary school.

Not applicable for those who've been held back the last 7 years.

- derumi (del-me)
"Bobby Fischer? Man, that guy is crazy!" - Mike Tyson

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Most Excellent Word.

MayorBob.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 08:20:07 AM EST

4.50 (astute, astute)

And they laughed when Kathy Bates uttered the word "oogy" in Misery.  As a person who voted for the number three statement in the poll, queasy just doesn't quite explain how I felt when I saw those photos.  I'm looking at the faces of ten to twelve-year-olds and up jumped cleavages speaking testaments to push-up bras everywhere.  It's just a jarring combination.  So, I'm thinking, give the ad agency and the Family Violence outfit high marks for gaining the attention of the casual reader.  But, what does it say other than that?  Can anyone actually read the text that accompanies the picture?

What are the ads saying, other than "here's yet more prurient pics of girls with BREASTS!"  The ads are doing nothing to combat pedophilia, because pedophiles aren't interested in the least in adult sized body parts.  Is it going to make some 18 to 20-something male think twice about getting lucky with someone?  Is it going to make someone pause and say (as you seem to be saying) "hey, I'd better have proof of age?"  Doubtful.  And, although I'm not a lawyer, if you're an adult and you get arrested for having sex with a someone under the age of consent, I don't think there's much of a defense you can throw up.  In most instances, the adult is not going to go through the steps you ticked off.  Perhaps the most that might be done is a quick question of "are you really (insert age of consent)?"  More likely, it would be a statement along the lines of "I can't believe you're really (insert age of consent)."  But, if I were a betting man, I'd probably put some money on the proposition that the guys who do have sex with underaged girls probably are well aware that she's not really legal.  They're probably friends of the family, neighbors, or (worse yet) relatives.

Illegitimi non carborundum.

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Re: Most Excellent Word.

zyxwvutsr.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 08:49:58 AM EST

4.75 (brilliant, interesting, informative)

As a person who voted for the number three statement in the poll, queasy just doesn't quite explain how I felt when I saw those photos
How does this one strike you? (Don't be afraid to click - it's not a picture of a person. Or an animal. It's just a rack of clothing at Walmart.)

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Re: Most Excellent Word.

MayorBob.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 09:05:28 AM EST

4.00 (informative)

It strikes me as wrong on a different level than the photos in the print ad.  I'm sure the geniuses who came up with those panties thought it was edgy, clever, and ironic.  Worn on an adult, it might be all of that.  Worn on a child and it's offensive and moronic.  They should limit themselves to marketing their wares to adults in Victoria's Secret and steer clear of the children's departments.  Just seeing them on the sales racks are not necessarily quease-inducing.  What might get my gag reflex to kick in big time is if I saw an adult looking them over, saying to their significant other how "cute and funny" they look.

I believe the articles of clothing have been yanked from the racks by Wal-Mart after enough opposition to having them displayed was voiced by customers.  If anything, my estimation of the basic intelligence of Wal-Mart customers skyrocketed as a result.

Illegitimi non carborundum.

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Re: Most Excellent Word.

Degee.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 09:08:25 AM EST

4.50 (informative, informative)

"because pedophiles aren't interested in the least in adult sized body parts. "
this is backed up by Humbert from Nabokov's Lolita:

For Humbert, a nymphet is in the earliest stages of puberty - "The bud-stage of breast development appears early (10.7 years)"[1] - and when he meets a streetwalker of eighteen, he considers her no longer a nymphet although her body is still in some ways childlike.[1]

from Wikipedia

 

Am I a great person? Hell no - by most metrics I'm pretty much an asshole. -TSlothrop

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Re: Most Excellent Word.

stevetherobot.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 11:03:52 AM EST

4.50 (interesting, astute)

Is it going to make someone pause and say (as you seem to be saying) "hey, I'd better have proof of age?"

The impression I get is not that they are trying to encourage guys to make sure the girls they sleep with are old enough.  They seem to be targeting guys who sleep with girls they know are underage but don't care because the girl is hot.

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Don't drink in NY then.

pO157.

Thu Feb 07, 2008 at 09:34:16 AM EST

4.50 (informative, informative)

Can somebody with some legal chops tell me what happens if a 16 year old who looks 20 comes on to you in a bar, and you take her home and sleep with her.  Can you be prosecuted for statutory rape?  What if you ask her age and she responds "21"?  What if you further ask to see her ID, and she shows you a fake ID (that looks real) that shows her age to be 21?  

In NY, you can go to a bar at 18 (perhaps younger, I am not sure) if the bar allows under-21 people in there. The only caveat is they have to card people when each time they get drinks, or mark the minors in some way. Hence, many places make money by giving the 18,19,20 year olds wristbands at the door that happen to "conveniently" fall off. The non-sketchy places do it the right way, by stamping or wristbanding the hands of everybody over 21 or denying minors entry altogether.

The end result? I have been told it is quite common for random 16 year old McLovin's getting into sketchy bars with a fake ID saying they are 19 or something, get bombed, and have shenanigans occur. I think this was a sub-plot of an episode of Law & Order recently.

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McLovin's address

JimmyHavok.

Thu Feb 07, 2008 at 06:05:09 PM EST

3.00 (interesting, informative)

"Momona" means "fat."

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You should not have been wearing those clothes

zyxwvutsr.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 07:43:52 AM EST

3.50 (interesting, interesting, interesting)

Helpful hints about what not to say:

    *  What a big jerk! What a bitch!
    * At least they care enough to get jealous.
    * That happened a long time ago. Get over it.
    * You should have known not to go to his/her house.
    * You do have a smart mouth.
    * She/he just wants you back.
    * You should not have been drinking/using drugs.
    * You're lucky to have somebody, even if they are not perfect.
    * You should just break up. I told you this before.
    * Don't talk back to them.
    * She/he's really good looking (or a good parent or has a good job), though.
    * If you don't do something, you're as bad as them.
    * It's not like they punched you or anything.
    * I think it's kind of romantic. Give them another chance. They said they were sorry.
    * They love you so much. I wish somebody loved me like that.
    * Stop making them mad. Don't talk to other people if they are around.
    * They wouldn't get jealous if they didn't care so much.
    * I'm not sure it's that dangerous.
    * Is it really that bad?
    * She/he just loves you too much.
    * Everybody argues.
    * You must be overreacting.
    * You should not have been wearing those clothes.
    * If you don't leave, it is your fault.
    * You should follow my advice.
    * I know what's best for you.

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Re: You should not have been wearing those clothes

PenitenziAgite.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 02:10:52 PM EST

4.00 (funny)

Wow.  That sure doesn't leave much wiggle room does it?

sierra tango foxtrot uniform

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Re: You should not have been wearing those clothes

thefadd.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 02:41:13 PM EST

4.66 (funny, funny, funny)

I dunno, there's still, "Let me drive you to the gun mart," cause that always opens up a rather wide range of options.

It is easy to buy small plaster models of what you think life is like.

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Re: What a bitch!

zyxwvutsr.

Wed Feb 06, 2008 at 08:53:36 AM EST

3.83 (funny, funny, astute)

Offtopic?!  My ass!  It's taken verbatim from the website of the Family Violence Partnership of Milwaukee...you know, the group mentioned in the very first sentence of the writeup?

Is it really that bad? You must be overreacting.

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