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Eat out? Take out? or cook in?

skeeter1.

Posted to Etcetera on Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 11:00:03 AM EST (promoted by port1080). RSS.

This story in USA Today got me to thinking.  The restaurant business is in the pits.  Lots of possible reasons why.  High prices?  Bad service (with tips still expected)?  Better off cooking at home?

I've gotten back into the kitchen, and it does save a bunch of money.  Making healthy meals for a couple of bucks sounds like a good idea.

On the other hand, I sort of miss my take-out Chinese food, pizzas, grilled steaks in the middle of winter, yada yada...

Fast food holds little interest to me.  McDonalds sausage & egg McMuffiin + a cup of coffee is something I do like, and a Burger King Whopper is good, too.  Last time I went to Taco Hell, it was pure crap.

I like restaurants, but they do have the highest failure-rate of just about any business.  Shame, but with a few cookbooks, pots & pans, and a few ingredients, you can eat just as well for $2/meal as $20/meal.

When times get tough, restaurants are probably the first ones to go down the tubes.  

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Re: Eat out? Take out? or cook in?

pO157.

Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 12:30:27 PM EST

5.00 (informative)

We used to get pizza from a local pizzeria. The folks who worked there had major attitude, there were bars on the windows, and the food would seldom arrive on time if you had it delivered. The delivery guy came with a bouncer person, usually. The pizza was excellent, the wings were amazing. But, we stopped going there when for 3 times in a row after we ordered the place got held up or the delivery guy got carjacked. I was worried they would see my credit card # as part of a pattern or something.

Now that two other pizzerias have opened up in a 3 block radius, and we have one of the regions most famous pizza places a half mile away the free market has taken over. Its amazing how the free market can't get you a cheap mortgage anymore, but you can get 20 wings, a large pepperoni pizza, and 10 breadsticks for $18.

Otherwise the Mrs. and I just go to local restaurants. We probably should vary our tastes more, but we've found a good half dozen or so and that is where we go when we're out. I'd say we only eat out once or twice a week at most. It's good to be in the kitchen because then you can cook things the way you want them, and as somebody who has never sent a single thing back at a sit down restaurant, that is a good thing.

For working lunch I am the leader of a small group of like minded co-workers that have a rotation of four lunch venues. All buffet style. One of my co-workers can seriously eat 8 plates of food so we have to do that just so we don't annoy a waitress with ordering like 5 entrees for 3/4 people. I personally find the Old Country Buffet the most eclectic because it reliably has 50% of the customer demographic above 65. After a while it's not as creepy when the old ladies follow you around the room with their wandering eyes. Plus I can say things to people like "You down with the OCB?" and shake my head in disgust if they do not immediately reply "Yeah, you know me."

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buffets

thefadd.

Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 01:10:20 PM EST

4.50 (interesting, astute)

I used to love them. I believe my old home, Greensboro, NC, is the capital of the chinese food buffet. But I just can't do the buffets anymore aside from Coley's Jamaican $20 Sunday Brunch in Inglewood. I've had too many bad run-ins with food that sat around tepidly warm for 3 hours before I got to it. I suppose if you get to a lunch buffet around 11, there's a better chance it'll be fresh but it's still probably left over from last night's menu.

It is easy to buy small plaster models of what you think life is like.

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skeeter1.

Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 04:31:49 PM EST

none

"I believe my old home, Greensboro, NC, is the capital of the chinese food buffet."

Oh, yes, I've been to a good Chinese buffet, but it's about 20 miles away.  OTOH, I've got some home-made hot & sour soup thawing in the fridge right now.  It might have cost me about a buck to make.  

Let me see...  40 mile round trip @ $0.60/mile and $10 for the buffet vs. $1 at home.  Hmmm...  

I feel badly for the restaurant owners, but when times get tough, you can eat a lot cheaper at home.  Besides, I really do enjoy playing around in the kitchen.  Inherited that gene from my grandmother, I guess.

there's only one way to find out...

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Re: buffets

thefadd.

Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 05:48:01 PM EST

none

I keep wondering where you do your shopping and what you put in your food for $1 or $2. When I make a soup it's $1 for the garlic, $2 for the broccoli or bok choy, $2 for the mushrooms, $1 for some lentils...of course mine is a lot better than chinese buffet.

It is easy to buy small plaster models of what you think life is like.

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We have one of those Old Country Buffets near us.

TonedEff.

Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 04:15:39 PM EST

4.50 (astute, funny)

We went late one Saturday afternoon and, brother, was the place cram jammed with tons of people who would benefit by hanging around the salad bar more than multiple visits to the pasta/mashed potato/fried chicken offerings on the steam line.  While we there a couple of buses emptied outside and an even more corpulent crew of customers waddled their way onto the premises.  Sorry if this sounds uncharitable but the main image I summon up when I think Old Country Buffet anymore is pigs to the trough.

 

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MayorBob.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 01:02:03 PM EST

4.50 (funny, funny)

"Anybody have any juicer experience?"

No, but I do have Barry Bonds' rookie baseball card.

Illegitimi non carborundum.

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Re: Eat out? Take out? or cook in?

skeeter1.

Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 11:38:02 AM EST

4.00 (informative)

I have fond memories of a restaurant named "Dimi's" (named after George Dimitropolis) where I worked back in the '60s.  He and his son ran the place.  Long since gone.

You could get breakfast, 3 eggs and hash-brown potatoes for $0.45.  Add on 3 slices of bacon or 3 links of sausage, and the price went up to $0.75.  Lunch was a bit pricier -- Veal parmesan & spaghetti was $1.75.

Of course, at the time I was making $1.50/hr.  

I can still cook that cheaply at home.  

Now, it's hard to find a place to get a good meal out for <$20.  Oh well, I'm waxing nostalgic.

there's only one way to find out...

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Re: Eat out? Take out? or cook in?

port1080.

Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 11:06:31 AM EST

none

We eat out probably more than we should, but we usually try to go to places at lunch, when they're having specials.  A lot of places have half-price sandwhiches for lunch.  One local bar has daily dinner specials, some of which are pretty good ($4 for a large pizza, $4 burger and fries, $3 for a plate of nachos that's big enough for two people to eat as a meal - they also have $1 drafts, making beer cheaper than soda, which is always a plus in my book...).  We try not to pay full price if we don't have to.

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Re: Eat out? Take out? or cook in?

port1080.

Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 01:11:05 PM EST

5.00 (informative)

If you are in Delaware sometime, here's a few of my recommendations:

Home Grown Cafe in Newark - lots of vegan and vegetarian options, if that's your thing.  Food is a little pricey and service is occasionally slow, but it's good food made with good quality and local ingredients whenever possible.  Best deal there is if you sit at the bar during lunch most of their sandwiches are half price!

Deer Park Tavern, also in Newark - food isn't nearly as good as Home Grown, but it's a bit cheaper and they have the dinner specials I mentioned in my original post.  You really can't beat a place that will give you a meal and beer for two people for under $10, including tip.

Caffe Gelato, again, in Newark.  A little overpriced, but they do have homemade gelato and the food is definitely good (maybe just not quite as good as you'd expect considering what you're paying).

Nonna Ristorante, outside Newark sort of in the Ogletown area (intersection of Rt. 4 and Harmony Road, for those that know what I'm talking about - between the old MBNA complex and the hospital).  It's kind of out of the way, but they have excellent Italian food and a spectacularly huge wine cellar.  It's in a strip mall, but don't let the appearance fool you - definitely a first class place.

Other good places include Matilda's (which is right off the last I95 exit before the toll if you're driving south through DE), which has some good Australian themed food (Kangaroo burgers, etc.), as well as a couple of diners that used to be Howard Johnson's - Crossroads in Pike Creek and Hollywood Grill up on 202.

Any other DE area TnTers have suggestions for me?  Always looking for new places to check out...

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thefadd.

Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 01:59:30 PM EST

5.00 (informative)

Not in Delaware but over the border on Route 1 in Chadds Ford is a great place called The Gables. More along the lines of the $25 entree but the food totally lives up to the price tag. We went there for a family outing after meeting up at nearby Longwood Gardens.

It is easy to buy small plaster models of what you think life is like.

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Caffe Gelato -- It's a real find.

MayorBob.

Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 02:20:40 PM EST

5.00 (informative)

Ever since my wife and I went to Italy in 1999, we've been recovering gelato addicts.  Imagine our chagrin that we couldn't find really decent gelato anywhere in Delaware (or nearby in PA or NJ) until we discovered this place.  It's authentic gelato, as it was founded by a guy who went over to Italy to figure out how to make it and all the ingredients in it are authentic.  We don't go down to Caffe Gelato all that much, but whenever we're in Newark, it's a must stop.

Other recommendations:

  1. Charcoal Pit Restaurant on Rte 202 (they have one in Pike Creek Valley also I believe).  Charcoal broiled burgers to die for and some hellacious ice cream desserts.  Warning, do not even think about ordering a Kitchen Sink unless you have a party of about four or more.

  2. Harry's Savoy Grill on Naaman's Road.  It's a bit pricy but the beef is superb.  Tip -- if you have a hankering for prime rib, you might want to try the prime rib sandwich and order a side.  I find it to have enough meat in it to satisfy my prime rib appetite and it doesn't cost as much as the main prime rib meal.

  3. If you'd prefer to cook it yourself, I suggest going to a Haldas Meat Market.  There's one at the intersection of Marsh and Silverside and you can get what you want cut to order and trimmed the way you like it.

  4. If you've been in Delaware any amount of time and you eat pizzas, then you already know that Grotto makes the best pizza in the state.

Illegitimi non carborundum.

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Re: Caffe Gelato -- It's a real find.

joshv.

Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 04:53:25 PM EST

none

My wife jokes that when we were in Italy every time she'd turn her back on me I'd head for a gelato stand.  If we lost each other in a crowd, she could usually find me by looking for the nearest gelattaria.  It's hard to find good gelato in Chicago.  Now if you are looking for pizza...

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Re: Caffe Gelato -- It's a real find.

skeeter1.

Sat Mar 08, 2008 at 09:36:37 PM EST

none

"It's hard to find good gelato in Chicago.  Now if you are looking for pizza..."

Indeed.  I've been to Gino's in Chicago a couple of times.  Excellent!  

The Pizza Port in Solana Beach, CA is pretty formidable, too.

Here, near Cleveland, we've got Antonio's on the west side, and Geraci's on the east side.  They're both pretty good, too.

there's only one way to find out...

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Re: Caffe Gelato -- It's a real find.

postillion.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 01:18:28 AM EST

none

I haven't been to Caffe Gelato but I would add that Capogiro in Philadelphia is amazing.  It's set the standard for gelato so high that no other gelato has come close to it in my experience ever since.

They have seasonable flavors according to the fruits available.  Their granny smith is so close to the original fruit that its as though you can feel the apple all crisp in your mouth.  

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Re: Caffe Gelato -- It's a real find.

skeeter1.

Sat Mar 08, 2008 at 10:23:15 PM EST

none

"They have seasonable flavors according to the fruits available.  Their granny smith is so close to the original fruit that its as though you can feel the apple all crisp in your mouth."

I might have to try making that.  There are lots of recipes for it, and it sounds simple enough to make.  Eggs, milk, fruit (I might throw in some Ovaltine, too).  Sounds easy to make, and I'm stuck at home tomorrow -- major snowstorm.  WTF?  It's worth a try.

there's only one way to find out...

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Re: Eat out? Take out? or cook in?

thefadd.

Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 12:47:30 PM EST

none

Food in so many cultures is a celebration of community and sharing. I think if you look at your favorite restaurants, they fulfill that. When I go out to eat, I do look for good food but I realize that I'm also paying for a lot more--a server that engages and shares their work with us, an atmosphere that has something extra whether it's a fun party or comfort chill out vibe. Of course, it all centers around delicious food.

It is easy to buy small plaster models of what you think life is like.

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atmosphere

JimmyHavok.

Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 10:10:34 PM EST

none

You're right, atmosphere is the biggest part of a restaurant.  Good food isn't that hard to produce, hell, I can do that myself, so there has to be more to make it worthwhile for customers to come out.

We eat at an Italian restaurant pretty regularly that has the kitchen smack in the middle of the dining room, separated only by a six-foot partition.  It's always noisy and crowded, so noisy that it doesn't matter if some little kid is crying two tables away.  The waitstaff is always friendly, and they have a very low turnover, so we get to know them, and one or two will stop to say hi even though we aren't on their table.

The food is hearty and good, but it's always a crapshoot what it's going to be like.  Sometimes the vegetables are barely warm, sometimes they're extremely carmelized (that's how I like it), but we go there probaly half the time we eat out simply because of the ambience.

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skeeter1.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 05:24:47 PM EST

none

"It's always noisy and crowded, so noisy that it doesn't matter if some little kid is crying two tables away."

Oh, how I remember that.  I don't mind the kids (I'm fairly tolerant in that regard), but there was one restaurant that I rather liked, except that it had hard-tin ceilings.  You couldn't hear someone from the other side of the table.  Best reason for going there?  I knew the bartender, and got beers for free.  Out of business now (maybe because of the free beers?)

Dinner for me tonight is going to be kielbasa and sauerkraut, made in my kitchen, and something you rarely find in restaurants.  I made pizza last night.  Each meal?  About a dollar.  No tips, no noise.  

I do agree that at the right place, at the right time, and with the right people, restaurants are fun places to go to.  Cooking at home is good (and cheap), too.

there's only one way to find out...

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thefadd.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 06:32:22 PM EST

none

Ok, seriously dude, how the hell are you making pizza for a dollar?

It is easy to buy small plaster models of what you think life is like.

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Re: atmosphere

skeeter1.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 08:22:10 PM EST

none

"Ok, seriously dude, how the hell are you making pizza for a dollar?"

Fair enough question.  Little ones, on pumpernickel bread with sausage, cheese, tomato sauce, spices -- probably closer to $0.50 than a dollar.

What can I tell you?  I take after my Bohemian grandmothers.  They survived the Great Depression, and maybe they knew a thing or three.  One grandmother back then made lots of lentil soup (cheap at the time) and my dad hated it.  I tried some recently, and share his distaste for the stuff.

I like cheap, simple, homemade food best.  Yes, I did once go to a $250 for 4 lunch in NYC.  Two hours out and three bottles of wine.  Was it worth it?  Heck yeah!  I didn't have to pick up the tab, the magazine editor took care of that on his card.

I guess my point is that you can eat at home, good food, for far less than you can eat out -- anywhere.

there's only one way to find out...

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Re: atmosphere

JimmyHavok.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 08:36:12 PM EST

none

You couldn't hear someone from the other side of the table.

Our favorite isn't quite that loud, but it's loud enough that you don't have to worry about anyone eavesdropping, or about hearing TMI from the idiot at the next table.

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Breakfast

thefadd.

Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 03:04:28 PM EST

none

One thing I'd like to eat more of is breakfast, whether in or out, but I usually sleep too late and have to get into the day quickly. On the weekends, I love the brunch at Puran's although almost everyone will direct you toward Doughboys which is a great place if you don't care about your health. Back in college, I used to love the Bojangles breakfast. These days one of my favorites is this the breakfast menu at Good Stuff a small burger chain around here.

It is easy to buy small plaster models of what you think life is like.

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skeeter1.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 11:53:50 PM EST

none

"One thing I'd like to eat more of is breakfast, whether in or out, but I usually sleep too late and have to get into the day quickly."

Oh, how I do love eggs (preferably fried, over, and hard) with bacon or sausage.  For the most part, they're for lunch or dinner.  Breakfast is usually a granola bar of one sort or another.  Oatmeal is OK, too, but I never liked cold cereal.  

It takes me a couple of hours in the morning to get up to speed, so a granola bar or Little Debbie's oatmeal cream pie is all I can do for breakfast.  Meh, that's OK.

When you're single, like me, you can eat whatever shit whenever you want.  

there's only one way to find out...

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Re: Breakfast

thefadd.

Sat Mar 08, 2008 at 03:05:01 AM EST

none

Yeah, an egg with sausage on an english muffin or croissant is hard to beat. The only bars I eat these days are the Clif Bars but the are always good in the pinch. Work is the main thing that stands between me and food.

It is easy to buy small plaster models of what you think life is like.

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B&J Carryout in Accokeek, MD

JimmyHavok.

Thu Mar 06, 2008 at 09:51:49 PM EST

none

We were trying to find our way to Hanover, PA using Google Maps' directions (big mistake!) and ended up headed south on the 210.  My girlfriend refused to turn on the GPS while the car was moving (don't ask), so we stopped in Accokeek to figure out where we were and got some of the best sandwiches I've ever had at B&J.   My girlfriend still raves about the BLT she had there, next time we go back to DC we're going to have to take a road trip just to drop in on them.

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postillion.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 01:32:05 AM EST

none

I was in the middle of chat with a friend while reading this thread, so I sent him the link to read the thread at the same time.  He asked this question about which restaurant businesses were declining: chains or local?

Since the article only covers chains, I wonder if the local businesses have picked up any more business or have fared better.

Living in California, I have to say that I almost never eat food at chains anymore.  Why should I given that the food produced locally is so much better?  Plus, it's less detrimental to the environment (shipping food uses up a lot of gas).

The other thing I should mention about the article is that I don't think that the lack of growth at Starbucks is due necessarily to the economy.  Instead, I think that Starbucks is finally leveling off.  I used to work in a building that had 4 Starbucks within a block radius...and I would think, is it even possible to fit another Starbucks nearby?  Plus, McDonald's new coffee line is providing competition to Starbucks (I noted that McDonalds reported a better growth year...as my mother always says so admiringly whenever she sees coffee being sold: Coffee is 90 percent profit.  A woman of good business sense).

If chain restaurants want to grow profits again, they should consider why Starbucks was so profitable right after 9/11 when other businesses were in a slight decline.  The largest reason cited was that people like to treat themselves to small luxuries when they can't afford the larger luxuries.  Booming years tend to mean that retailers overprice their goods out of affordability when the declining years hit.  Instead, all retail and service industries that are part of that bracket of disposable income consumption should really be working on a two tier pricing system, one that is for the higher end and another that is for the affordable smaller luxuries.  

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thefadd.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 12:54:52 PM EST

none

Besides, they are processed shit. Olive Garden? Cheesecake Factory? Fridays? I don't feel bad thinking less of people who like these places...

It is easy to buy small plaster models of what you think life is like.

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ivyafire.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 08:57:48 PM EST

none

Besides, they are processed shit. Olive Garden? Cheesecake Factory? Fridays? I don't feel bad thinking less of people who like these places...

That's my problem.  There are a lot of things that taste good, but I know they're fulll of garbage, so I rarely eat out.  I want food in my food, not cheap substitutes.  And it isn't just restaurants, it's the grocery store also.  Nearly everything you can buy has soy and/or MSG hidden in it, and it was recently discovered that olive oil from Italy is adulterated with canola oil (even though you're paying top dollar for 100% olive.)  

The whole soy is healthy scam is based solely on the mighty dollar.  When you systematically replace more expensive fats, flours and proteins with one cheaply produced bean product, imagine the profit margin.  Convince the general public there are health benefits to doing so, and you've started your own free advertising campaign.  Pure evil genius.  For every supposed benefit you can get from eating soy, there is another health problem you invite from doing the same.  It isn't a cure-all, and there are more than a few people who believe it's responsible for the earlier onset of puberty in girls today.   AFAIC, it's a mutation, but because the same doctors who told us soy is healthy would have to backpedal now, they instead just say puberty in a 7 or 8 year old girl is normal now.    

All the fast food restaurants switched to soy because it was supposed to be healthier, yet pounds didn't miraculously melt from their customers, did they?  Couldn't be because soy suppresses thyroid function and slows down their metabolism, thereby increasing the likelihood they'll gain weight on their fast food salad, could it?

Hell, yeah, I cook at home.  I don't want anything in my food that I have to google   to find out what it really is, or what it might be doing to my health.

"It was an ancient rule of Hawaiians that no one should hurt another bodily, or through theft of goods or through injury to feelings.These were the only sins."

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postillion.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 10:10:44 PM EST

4.50 (informative, astute)

Good grief.  

Having grown up with different variants of soy food all my life (miso, tofu, soy sauce, soy milk, as well as a little known by-product in making tofu that can be used in Asian cooking), I was shocked when I just googled soy and food.

I had no idea that there were all these Americans thinking that soy is the end all, be all of health.

This is always happening where some medical report comes out on a little used food product and it becomes the panacea to all health problems.  In many ways, it's no different than America's embrace of the Atkins diet.

East Asians don't sit and consume soy all day long, not even every single day.  As with any cuisine, there's a rich variety of foods that can be consumed.

What matters in a healthy diet is getting a good variety of different foods for a mix of nutrients and minerals.  Depending on one item is ridiculous...and also sounds very unappetizing.

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thefadd.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 09:07:03 PM EST

none

The problem I think comes when people think they can simply replace every meat on their plate with soy. Plus, it substitutes for so much that it can quickly permeate your diet. I think it's wrong to say soy is bad but personally I put on par with chicken, something that is generally deprecated in my diet to once every week or two. I'd rather have soy than wheat but I'll take brown rice and quinoa over either.

It is easy to buy small plaster models of what you think life is like.

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ivyafire.

Sat Mar 08, 2008 at 04:45:49 AM EST

5.00 (informative, interesting)

The problem I think comes when people think they can simply replace every meat on their plate with soy. Plus, it substitutes for so much that it can quickly permeate your diet. I think it's wrong to say soy is bad but personally I put on par with chicken, something that is generally deprecated in my diet to once every week or two. I'd rather have soy than wheat but I'll take brown rice and quinoa over either.

It's much more insidious than that.  Google 'soy aliases' and you'll find that there's soy in your water packed tuna, most of your canned, frozen or boxed foods, and nearly everything  you get in restaurants.  I literally cook everything from scratch and read labels obsessively because you cannot eat the stuff in moderation when they are subbing it for everything.  It truly chaps my ass.  

Of course, I've discovered I can pick up huge bags of flour at Costco and bake bread and burger buns all month for much less than I can buy them, and I make my own version of bisquick, cake mixes, pancake mix, and so on.  I had to find palm shortening at a health food store, and I'm all kinds of pissed off about having to put my olive oil in the fridge to see if it solidifies, since that's the only way you can be sure it hasn't had canola added.    I've found recipes for substitutes for nearly everything processed, though my husband and the kids still eat Oreos, which just squicks me out.  Crisco between 2 chocolate wafers, yummy.

I'm fortunate I like to cook, and I have the time to do this.  But not everyone has that luxury, and it's no wonder we have a nation of people who are obese, or that thyroid disorders are much more prevalent than they were 40 years ago.

When I hear some talking head on the news spouting about how Americans are getting fat because we're lazy, while in the same breath telling us to eat more healthy soy, it makes my head explode.  Have some more of the very thing that suppresses your thyroid and slows your metabolism, that'll help you lose weight.  Never mind that pesky exhaustion that makes thyroid patients unable to exercise as much as they might like, it'll never happen to you.  And then there are the possible links to migraines.  I can't think of a single good reason to be putting this crap into so many products, it just doesn't make any sense.

http://www.cbn.com/health/nutrition/soytrigger.aspx
http://www.meritcare.com/news/world/viewarticle.aspx?id=7215
http://www.soyonlineservice.co.nz/04cancer.htm
http://www.soyonlineservice.co.nz/03summary.htm

I can testify to the effects of soy formula and early puberty, as we rushed our daughter to the pediatrician at 6 because we were freaked out by signs of puberty.  I cannot understand how, when it was considered normal for girls to get their periods around 12 when I was a girl, it suddenly jumped to being normal for  me to have to give a 6 year old girl the talk.  Bullshit.  Evolution doesn't happen that fast, but a mutation damn sure does.  

It wasn't until years afterwards that I found out many women who are hypothyroid have problems breastfeeding, and putting children on soy based formulas is the worst thing you can possibly do.  Fortunately, we only made this mistake with one child, but the damage is done. :(  Oh, and guess what?  Abbott Labs, who make soy formula, and soy based Ensure, also make the number one prescribed thyroid drug, Synthroid.  Coincidence?   Those bastards create their own customer base from day one.    

How convenient.  With a little help from General Mills, Stouffer's, Betty Crocker, Campbells and Pillsbury, they should be raking in the cash for years to come.

"It was an ancient rule of Hawaiians that no one should hurt another bodily, or through theft of goods or through injury to feelings.These were the only sins."

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skeeter1.

Sat Mar 08, 2008 at 01:36:56 AM EST

none

"Besides, they are processed shit. Olive Garden? Cheesecake Factory? Fridays? I don't feel bad thinking less of people who like these places..."

We're on the same wavelength here.  You can toss in Applebees and a boatload of other franchised- chain restaurants.  I won't go to one.  

And to think, at one time, I sought out places like that.  What the hell was I thinking?  

I just had a conversation with my cousin today about a mom-and-pop restaurant that we used to go to.  Good food, cheap prices, great service.  

Olive Garden?  You wouldn't get me caught dead in one.

there's only one way to find out...

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thefadd.

Sat Mar 08, 2008 at 03:12:02 AM EST

5.00 (interesting)

Looking back, Oliver Garden was likely kind of my awakening to a food awareness. It was supposed to be "food" but my body never accepted it. Probably four or five times I went there and horribly sick each time. In college Applebees was the default fall back. We all had favorite places but that was the only one we could all settle on being OK with. Hell, I would have rather gone to waffle house at the time. At least it only cost like $3 total, including tip. I still refused to go to Friday's.

After working in one of those Chili's/Applebee's/Flinger's chains and then quitting for a genuine italian restaurant, I really started to open my eyes about what the "food" consisted of.

It is easy to buy small plaster models of what you think life is like.

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JimmyHavok.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 08:41:35 PM EST

none

I agree about avoiding chains.  We ate at Chilis a couple of weeks ago, and I wanted to make for the door before I got halfway through the menu.  All these midrange chains seem to have been designed, from the wall decorations to the drink menu, by the same whitebread committee, and the food is not much different.

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Juicing

thefadd.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 01:00:30 PM EST

none

A place just opened down the street that does a great grapefruit/kale/apple lemon juice. My favorite though, is the kale/beet/lemon/ginger I custom order at my local co-op.

I've been wanting to do more juicing myself, though, and to get one for my parents as well. Anybody have any juicer experience? They're terribly expensive and some of them break easily so I want to do my due diligence.

It is easy to buy small plaster models of what you think life is like.

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ms sue.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 03:38:53 PM EST

none

I've never understood the allure of "juicing." I'd much rather chew my calories, although I won't be chomping on kale or beets anytime soon.

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thefadd.

Fri Mar 07, 2008 at 03:49:58 PM EST

none

Oh, you don't know what you're missing. I can't stand the taste of beets but they make for subtly sweet juice. If you want to get a high concentration of vegetables on a daily basis, there isn't a much better way. You can two pounds worth of fresh vegetables in a 16 oz cup. I find it absolutely revitalizing and that ginger kick is better than caffeine without the crash or jitters.

It is easy to buy small plaster models of what you think life is like.

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skeeter1.

Sat Mar 08, 2008 at 09:07:25 PM EST

none

Kale?  Maybe not, but I can eat a boatload of spinach, particularly if it has some vinegar on it.  Beets?  I love the things, fresh-cooked or pickled.  Then again, I also like pickled eggs and sausages.  

Juicing vegetables has never sounded appealing to me.  

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ms sue.

Sun Mar 09, 2008 at 12:29:06 PM EST

none

Oh, I'd eat kale -- if it's fresh and tender and sauteed with a little lemon and garlic or maybe used in soup or in a pasta dish. And I'm a big fan of spinach in just about any form.

I am rather beet-deprived, mostly because it's one of the few foods of which even the mere mention makes my husband gag. I think it's due to those canned beets that you used to see in salads quite often. I bet he'd like fresh beets properly prepared, but I'm not going to be the one to suggest it.

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jwb.

Sat Mar 08, 2008 at 12:01:23 AM EST

none

Cooking for yourself violates the principle of specialization in economics.  It should be much more efficient for me to get my meals from a specialist than for me to do it at home.  I can get an excellent meal for two -- soup, pea sprouts, sunflower seed chicken, steamed white rice -- from the restaurant down the block for $30.  Add up the time it would take me to get those ingredients and prepare the meal, and the fuel needed, and the investment in kitchen appliances and the extra real estate for the kitchen itself, and the cost of the meal goes way beyond $30.  I tend to eat out because the calculations are in their favor.

I do like to cook at home but I recognize that it's basically an expensive hobby.  I made a vegetable soup from Cook's Illustrated and I spent three hours of my time plus about $50 in ingredients and at least $5 worth of energy.  Eating at home can be expensive that way.

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port1080.

Sat Mar 08, 2008 at 08:49:41 AM EST

4.50 (astute, interesting)

spent three hours of my time plus about $50 in ingredients and at least $5 worth of energy.

If it costs that much, you're doing it wrong! I guess part of it might be the learning curve, but once you know what you're doing you should be able to cook meals for two with reasonably healthy ingredients for under $10 (and with organic / extra health stuff for far less than that). I'm guessing maybe you shelled out a lot for various spices - that's a big initial cost a lot of times, but then once you have them in your pantry they usually go a long way, since you're generally only using a pinch here or a pinch there. Also, if you think ahead a little and plan out meals for the week, sometimes you can buy larger portions (almost always cheaper that way) and then use part for one meal and part for the next (or have left-overs - usually an excellent option with soup, since it often tastes better after it's sat for a day or two and the flavors have had time to mingle).

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jwb.

Sat Mar 08, 2008 at 10:51:59 AM EST

none

Believe me, I know how to scrimp at the market.  This particular recipe called for making a chicken broth with an entire chicken and a vegetable broth with about a cubic foot of chopped vegetables.  Then both broths go into the soup with yet further various vegetables.  Probably the most expensive single ingredient is porcini mushrooms.  Anyway, a very expensive recipe.

Recently when I want a convenient meal made at home I enjoy penne and potatoes with baby broccoli tossed in a sauce of anchovies, garlic, and hot peppers.  That one only takes 30 minutes, which is about the shortest time I can get with any recipe that needs boiling water.  If I'm really looking to save time I'm likely to just eat a small bowl of nuts and raisins.  Pure utility.

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port1080.

Sat Mar 08, 2008 at 11:02:29 AM EST

4.50 (informative)

Well, if it took that many ingredients then you should have had quite a few leftover meas out of that, no?  When I make vegetable of chicken soup it's usually enough for at least four meals for myself and my wife (usually we have it the night we cook it, then a day or two later, then freeze what's left over in single serving containers to eat later as convenience food).  So, it's not entirely fair to match up the $55 cost against one single $30 meal.

It does sound like you go for somewhat more complicated recipes, though.  I tend toward simple, fresh, single ingredient food.  Grill some meat, steam a vegetable, and I'm good to go.

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skeeter1.

Mon Mar 10, 2008 at 10:11:32 AM EST

none

"This particular recipe called for making a chicken broth with an entire chicken and a vegetable broth with about a cubic foot of chopped vegetables.  Then both broths go into the soup with yet further various vegetables.  Probably the most expensive single ingredient is porcini mushrooms."

Well, I admire your determination, but I cheat somewhat.  I use Knorr boullion and dried porcini mushrooms and vegetables.  Add in a few Kluski noodles, a couple of chicken thighs (they're cheap), and I can easily make a gallon of good soup for <$10.  

there's only one way to find out...

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postillion.

Sat Mar 08, 2008 at 09:11:58 PM EST

none

Cost depends on what you are cooking and quantity as well.  For instance, you can get a cup chicken soup for about $2.50 to $4 at most diners along with some crackers.  But that's done and over with and chances are that vegetables are overcooked and mushy.  However, I can make a chicken rice porridge for roughly $12 and eat it for dinner for the whole week (and I often do during the winter).

There are a number of things that I am not going to cook because I don't want to take the time or I don't want to buy the number of ingredients involved when I only want to eat it once.  For instance, as a single person, a slice of cake at $5 is cheaper than making a cake which usually costs me around $25 (I like to use the better chocolate for my cake...it does make a real difference in the taste).  Also, I am not likely to eat a whole cake, so I only bake them when I have friends over for dinner.

There are also things I don't like to order at restaurants unless I am traveling because I think it's just a waste of money.  Pancakes are high on that list.  Pancakes are easy to make and ridiculously cheap.  All the ingredients are things I have regularly stocked.  About the only thing I need to buy is a pack of sausages as a side.

One skill I've picked up over time is learning which ingredients I will use over and over again so that I don't have to stock up for every new recipe.  The other skill is learning when I am willing to shell out the money for a bunch of new ingredients because I really want to try out the dish, particularly if it's a dish that is not easily found at any restaurant near me.

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MC Nally.

Sun Mar 09, 2008 at 12:49:21 AM EST

5.00 (funny, funny)

The other skill is learning when I am willing to shell out the money for a bunch of new ingredients because I really want to try out the dish,
Your post makes me think of New Yorker cartoonist Roz Chast's cartoon "Young Professional Recipe Test  The cartoon's a little hard to read in the link I found, but the test is threefold:
  • Does recipe contain at least 4 different kinds of flavored vinegars?
  • Does it require one extremely expensive ingredient that you will use just this once and never again for as long as you live?
  • Do you have to go out and buy a type of pan you've never even heard of?

All kidding aside, though, if you like to experiment find a good market with high-quality bulk-priced items.  

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postillion.

Sun Mar 09, 2008 at 01:37:01 PM EST

none

Haha.

I admit it.  I absolutely used to do this kind of cooking, and frequently, when I was in my mid-twenties.   The really expensive recipes were the ones calling for special kinds of liquors.

Now, I am more interested in different kind of ethnic cuisines or long-term equipment investment. There've been so many great recipes developed over the last couple of years that focus on getting a rich flavor for food.

The two items I would like to get are:

  1. a real tagine with an unglazed interior
  2. an ice cream maker

One of my friends is crazy about sous vide and has all the equipment.  I won't go that far.  Happily, I get invited to their house for dinner frequently.

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ivyafire.

Tue Mar 11, 2008 at 06:36:20 AM EST

none

Ah, but which one to get?  I had a cuisinart I liked, other than having to store the innards in the freezer.

Kitchenaid makes an attachment for the  mixer, but it's kind of pricey and I don't know if it's any good.

This thing is cheap, but quite possibly a piece of crap.

What can you do with a Tagine that makes it special?  I've never seen one before.

"It was an ancient rule of Hawaiians that no one should hurt another bodily, or through theft of goods or through injury to feelings.These were the only sins."

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postillion.

Tue Mar 11, 2008 at 03:00:18 PM EST

none

I have been eyeing the Cuisinart ice cream maker since I've read some good reviews about it.  I agree that the Kitchenaid is pricey, particularly since I don't own one (I actually find the Kitchenaid more cumbersome than a handheld mixer).

Tagines are used for certain Middle Eatern cooking, particularly Moroccan and Egyptian cuisine, I believe.  Along with the cookware, the food is also called a tagine. Generally, its similar to braised dishes...but as with all braised dishes, the food tastes better when the cookware is tighter around the ingredients being braised, allowing for a tighter circulation of air while cooking.

The key is to buy a tagine with an unglazed interior.  There are more expensive models by French cookware makers, but all of them have a glazed interior and generally cost about $30 to $40 dollars more whereas an unglazed tagine is a more modest cookware product.

If you are ever in New York, you can get some incredible tagines at either Kebab Cafe or Mombar in Astoria, Queens.  There's also a really wonderful Egyptian restaurant I went to in Boston but I've forgotten the name.

You can look at tagines, the cookware, here.

And here are some recipes.

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postillion.

Tue Mar 11, 2008 at 03:08:12 PM EST

none

Actually, go here for tagine, the cookware.  Better selection and better prices.

Prices are so good on this website that I really think I should just buy one now.

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ivyafire.

Wed Mar 12, 2008 at 01:32:36 AM EST

none

Yum!  Thanks.

The cuisinart is a nice little machine and easy to use.

You find the Kitchenaid cumbersome?  I use mine almost daily, it's the stupid cuisinart food processor I find a pain to use.  I have a mini chopper I use sometimes, but usually I just get out the knife and the cutting board.

"It was an ancient rule of Hawaiians that no one should hurt another bodily, or through theft of goods or through injury to feelings.These were the only sins."

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port1080.

Wed Mar 12, 2008 at 08:38:37 PM EST

none

Kitchenaid makes an attachment for the mixer, but it's kind of pricey and I don't know if it's any good.

We have an ice cream attachment for our Kitchenaid. It works reasonably well, but it doesn't freeze the ice cream batter all the way (the best I've gotten is a really thick milk shake consistency). I've found the best thing is to make the ice cream about an hour before you want to eat it, then stick it in the freezer and let it solidify a little, and then it should be good to go. Don't let it go too long though, or it will get pretty solid and then you won't be able to scoop it easily. The best ice cream freezers are the ones like this. They're a bit of a pain, since you have to provide ice and rock salt, but they work far better than the type of freezers that require you to pre-freeze the bowl.

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ivyafire.

Wed Mar 12, 2008 at 11:36:08 PM EST

none

The best ice cream freezers are the ones like this. They're a bit of a pain, since you have to provide ice and rock salt, but they work far better than the type of freezers that require you to pre-freeze the bowl.
Sure, if you make it all the time, but I don't know if I can justify the expense no more often than I would use it.   The cuisinart on sale or the cheap catalog one I can probably talk myself into.  

Those sure bring back memories, though.  

"It was an ancient rule of Hawaiians that no one should hurt another bodily, or through theft of goods or through injury to feelings.These were the only sins."

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skeeter1.

Wed Mar 12, 2008 at 04:15:41 AM EST

none

"Does recipe contain at least 4 different kinds of flavored vinegars?
Does it require one extremely expensive ingredient that you will use just this once and never again for as long as you live?
Do you have to go out and buy a type of pan you've never even heard of?"
.

Well, I guess I'm guilty of all of those.  I have lots of various vinegars, some balsamic that cost me $50 for 250ml, cider vinegar, rice-wine vinegar, red wine vinegar, white vinegar, cheaper balsamic vinegar, and probably more that I'm forgetting about at the moment.

Lots of kinds of oils.  Extra-virgin olive and peanut oils are mostly what I use, but I've got some toasted sesame oil and Chinese chili oil that will probably last for years.

I just got a new stainless-steel wok, but I've been cooking in woks for years, so I don't know if that counts.  I did get a pro-quality frittata pan, but it will double as a fry pan.  I just wanted to get rid of all the aluminum/teflon ones pans (I had lots).  They're all gone now.

As for the suggestion to just buy a slice of cake, that submitter is right.  I almost never bake (mostly just brownies), and a whole cake would be stale before I could finish it.  

I still contend that you can eat healthier (and for the most part cheaper) at home.  

there's only one way to find out...

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